We've seen it before.
Minahs, anything between 18 and 22, unmarried. With a pram. And still surrounded by Mats, as they would before the baby. Dressing still as before. Habits like smoking, still as before.
"Who says with kids, you can't do the same thing?"
You bloody well can. But its unsightly. Time to grow up, no?
Mats dun make good dads. Guys, if you're still below 25, and jobless or doing your NS, and not able to support yourself, then I don't think you should be supporting others, like a baby, for example.
Aku tengok, mata pun macam nak terkeluar. I think its really naive, shallow, and plain downright immature. If you think that it's against religion to abort a growing foetus in the womb, it's equally wrong if you have a child knowing you can't support him or her, and depending on your parents for support and resources.
Kahwin muda untuk simpan malu. But everyone confirm tahu kalau kahwin terkejut means tu kahwin shotgun.
Nowadays, unless I know the couple personally, the very first question I would ask is.. "Shotgun eh? Why so sudden?"
So these young kids, and their so-called friends, push the baby in a pram down to town, the old hangouts, just like nothing's happened. Daddy's nowhere to be seen, or you can only guess that anyone of those other guys with her can be the dad.
That's what happens when a slut gets pregnant.
And that's what's gonna happen bila kita hidup dalam satu community yang masih backward in making the right decisions.
So for those ladies out there yang less than 6 months, and contemplating whether nak buang or not, tengok diri dalam cermin baik-baik. Tepuk dada, tanya sendirik:
1) Bapak dia siapa? Dia nanti kasi nafkah?
2) Aku macam mana? Cita-cita aku? Sekolah aku?
3) Kalau aku tak kahwin, sampai bila aku boleh support budak ni? Siapa nak tanggung anak instant, kalau bukan bapak dia?
4) Kalau kasi orang, boleh tak aku berpisah dengan darah daging aku, yang aku kandung for 9 months, with all the pains, and inconveniences?
5) Kalau aku kerja, siapa nak jaga?
6) Budak ni bila dah besar, macam mana? Sekolah? Siapa nak walikan dia, time nak kahwin nanti?
7) Mak bapak aku? Diorang umur pun dah menjangkau. Siapa nak tolong aku tanggung bila diorang dah takde?
8) Berapa ah kalau nak buang? Mana aku nak dapat duit? [$1,000]
9) Kalau nak simpan? Duit hospital, siapa nak bayar? [$3,000]
10) Is it worth it?
So gegerl-gegerl sekelian... Nak main boleh. Dah sangkut, camana?
The guys... Da main, kalau sangkut camana? Konek shrink teros lari, tukar number telefon kappe? Dosa anak tu, tetap dosa kau jugak.
Anyway, takde motor, ade stroller pun ok pe...
Gaya. Mutu. Keunggulan.
11 June 2009
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